A new Internet "game" called the Blue Whale Challenge encourages participants to engage in self-harming behavior, ultimately leading up to suicide. The challenge first gained popularity overseas, but has made its way to the United States. And every parent needs to be aware of this dangerous online threat. Credit: ©Thinkstock/sapozhnik For as long as there are children, there will be dares. And those dares now come in the form of Internet challenges. While many are harmless, like the saltine challenge, others can be extremely dangerous. The Blue Whale Challenge certainly falls into the dangerous category.
“They [his friends] blew it off like it was a joke and if one of them would have said something, one of them would have called us, he would have been alive,” lamented his sister.RELATED: Online ‘Pass-Out’ Game Is Suspected Cause Behind 11-Year-Old’s Death Isaiah's grieving family is speaking out about this dangerous online game, hoping to raise awareness among parents and save lives.
“I want [parents] to go through their phones, look at their social media,” Mr. Gonzales said. “If they're on that challenge already, they can catch that from happening.”
• Unless there is reason to believe your child already knows of or has played the game, don’t bring up the Blue Whale Game. By doing so, you increase the chance that your child will investigate it on their own.
• Do check in with your child, ask how things are going. Ask if there have been things stressing them, or anything that has them worried. Steady yourself to listen intently. Ask open-ended questions without judgment. Resist the urge to offer quick fixes to a situation they may be facing. Validate and support their feelings. Follow their cues. If your child is talking about any level of distress, do not hesitate to ask them about changes in mental health or suicidal thoughts. It can start with asking “Are you OK?” Watch this video.
• Monitor your children’s online and social activity to ensure they are not engaging with this game.
• As a way to open the conversation about coping strategies, ask your child if any of their friends or classmates have faced challenges or are exhibiting warning signs. Ask how their friends have coped as a way to open the conversation around healthy coping strategies.
• If you fear your child may be at risk, get professional help right away. For help finding a mental health professional, visit afsp.org/findaprofessional. If in crisis, please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or contact the Crisis Text Line by texting TALK to 741-741.
• Remind your child that you are there and will support them as they face life challenges.
You can find more suicide prevention resources HERE. Please be in prayer for the families impacted by this terrible "game." And please warn all of the parents and grandparents you know of this threat so they can be on the lookout for signs in the children they love. h/t: Uproxx YOU MAY ALSO LIKE: Stranger Helps Kidnapped Teen Make Miraculous Return Home 1 Year Later Credit: WSOC TV