
Rebuilding Us: Marriage Podcast
Dana CheFrom NFL Teams to Marriage Dreams: A Journey to Spiritual Intimacy (Intimacy Series)
September 2, 2025 ● 40 minShare this episode
Former NLF player turned church pastor, Derwin Gray, and his beautiful wife, Vicki, share wisdom drawn from over 33 years of marriage, their journey from a lopsided spiritual partnership to unified faith, and practical ways couples can cultivate deep spiritual intimacy—no matter their starting point.
Notable Quotes
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Derwin: “Intimacy is ‘into me, you see.’ … It’s a position of vulnerability. … The blood of Jesus either declares me righteous or it doesn’t. That frees me to be able to give myself to my wife.”
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Vicki: “Letting Jesus change you—that’s what’s going to draw your spouse … learning to just ‘be’ with Jesus and trust Him to reflect light through you.”
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Dana Che: “If your security isn’t rooted in Christ, you look at your spouse as an enemy, instead of the helper they were created to be.”
Resources Mentioned
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Get Derwin's Book: Lit Up With Love by Dr. Derwin Gray
- Get your FREE Intimacy Series Guide here.
- Register for the upcoming online "Marriage Reset" Workshop
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