
Rebuilding Us: Marriage Podcast
Dana CheFive Decisions Spouses Should NOT Make After an Affair (Healing After Infidelity)
April 15, 2025 ● 33 minShare this episode
The aftermath of infidelity in marriage is painful, to say the least. Chances are you, or someone you know, is dealing with the fallout of an affair. Whether you're the betrayed or the betrayer, or if you're simply offering support to a loved one, this episode aims to provide practical guidance on navigating this tumultuous time.
It’s critical to acknowledge the emotional upheaval that accompanies the revelation of an affair. You're likely to experience a whirlwind of emotions—disappointment, fear, shame, anger, and sorrow, to name a few. Instead of avoiding these feelings, it’s important to validate these feelings. It’s perfectly normal to feel like a stranger to your own emotions. The key is recognizing that your marriage has suffered significant trauma, which requires both patience and understanding.
In this episode, we discuss the five critical decisions both the betrayed spouse and the unfaithful spouse should avoid making after infidelity comes to light.
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Register for my upcoming masterclass: Beyond Betrayal
Want to go deeper? Learn more about my Infidelity Intensive Course
Ep. 334 - Our Advice to the Unfaithful Spouse - with Shaun Williams
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