
The Happy Home Podcast with Arlene Pellicane
Arlene PellicaneYour Kids' Spiritual Growth Matters More Than Harvard: Gary Thomas on Parenting for Eternity
January 26, 2026 ● 31 minShare this episode
Gary Thomas (bestselling author of Sacred Marriage, Sacred Parenting) is back on the podcast to discuss his latest book, The Life You Were Reborn to Live: Dismantling 12 Lies About Remaining in God's Love. Gary challenges common parenting myths that Christians often fall into, and offers practical ways on how to live life God's way, not the world's.
Let's learn together how to create Christ-centered homes, prioritize God's kingdom over family idols, and embrace spiritual adventure over control.
05:21 - Creating a Christ-centered home (Colossians 3: compassion over conflict)
08:12 - Renewing your mind against worldly lies (Romans 12)
09:06 - Finding pride in spiritual growth over worldly success
14:25 - Why prioritizing God, even above family, is most important
21:53 - Being spiritually adventurous: The adventure Jesus calls us to
25:13 - Parenting on offense: Expecting God to use your kids
26:04 - Powerful testimony: When obedience can save a life
27:51 - Turning your "chair out" toward community
30:00 - Practical tips for isolated teens: Remove comforts, invite fellowship
Check out Gary's substack at connecttogary.com and buy his new book The Life You Were Reborn to Live anywhere books are sold. Find out more at garythomas.com.
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Today's Devotional
A Prayer for God to Strengthen Mothers Who Feel Worn Out - Your Daily Prayer - May 9
In troubling times, we can draw near to God and find comfort in His arms. Our heavenly Father is compassionate and understands sorrow, grief, anguish, and even regret when it comes to loving and caring deeply.
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