In a previous episode, we talked about the power of saying, “I’m sorry.” Today, we’re taking the next step and diving into forgiveness, specifically, what it looks like to forgive our spouse. Forgiveness isn’t always easy, but it’s one of the most powerful ways to strengthen a marriage. In this episode, we explore what forgiveness really is (and isn’t), why it’s vital for lasting love, and how practicing it can lead to healing, trust, and deeper connection.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

• Why forgiveness plays such a big role in happy, lasting marriages
• What forgiveness truly means from both a biblical and relational perspective
• Three things forgiveness is not and why those distinctions matter
• How to navigate the process of forgiving when it still hurts
• Practical ways to rebuild trust after forgiveness
• How to think like a forgiving person and create a culture of grace in your marriage

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Forgiveness is a process, not a one-time decision.
• Forgiveness doesn’t erase responsibility or instantly restore trust.
• Choosing to forgive frees your heart from bitterness and opens space for connection.
• Repair—not just resolution—is what rebuilds intimacy after conflict.
• Thinking like a forgiver starts by asking God to help you see your spouse through His eyes.

US TIME CHALLENGE

This week’s challenge is to think about how you think. When your spouse does something that frustrates or hurts you, pause and ask yourself: Am I thinking like a forgiver or like a victim? Invite God to reshape your thoughts, helping you move toward grace and understanding.

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LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

• “How Forgiveness Can Transform Your Marriage” by the Gottman Institute (https://www.gottman.com/blog/forgiveness-can-transform-marriage/)
• “Real Answers to Real Relationship Questions” from Chad Moore at Sun Valley Community Church (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=exzwsCITlVM)
• “What the Bible Really Says About Love” from Chad Moore at Sun Valley Community Church (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQSMJWhRNFo)
• “What forgiveness is not: 5 common misconceptions” by Laura Petherbridge (https://www.focusonthefamily.ca/content/what-forgiveness-is-not-5-common-misconceptions)
• “The Art of Repair: Transforming Conflict Into Closeness” by Greg Smalley (https://www.klove.com/resources/life/the-art-of-repair-transforming-conflict-into-closeness-11585)

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