
Rebuilding Us: Christian Marriage Advice for Couples
Dana CheWhy Your Feelings Keep Getting Misunderstood
September 15, 2026 ● 24 minShare this episode
Have you ever tried to explain how you feel, only to walk away feeling even more misunderstood? In marriage, this can be very frustrating. A simple conversation turns into defensiveness, confusion, or conflict. In this episode, I’m sharing practical ways to communicate what you’re really feeling so your partner has a better chance of hearing your heart.
I’ll walk you through how to express yourself with more clarity, stay grounded during difficult conversations, and avoid some of the common communication habits that create unnecessary tension. If you’re tired of conversations going sideways and want to feel more heard, understood, and connected in your relationship, this episode is for you.
Key Takeaways:
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How to express your feelings without putting your partner on the defensive
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Why clarity matters when communicating what you need
- A funny story of how this works with Shaun and me in real time
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Common mistakes that cause your message to get misunderstood
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How to stay grounded when emotions are running high
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Ways to create more connection during difficult conversations
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Today's Devotional
A Prayer to Remember You Are Truly Never Alone - Your Daily Prayer - November 12
Nothing is hidden from His sight because He knows all things; He knows hearts and our deepest needs, but when we share our burdens and cares with Him, we are reminding our soul of the goodness and faithfulness of our Heavenly Father.
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