Rebuilding Us: Christian Marriage Advice for Couples

Dana Che

How Are Marriage Vows Sacred? (Marriage Vows Series)

September 14, 2021 ● 20 min

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How Are Marriage Vows Sacred? (Marriage Vows Series)

“Dearly beloved, we are gathered together in the sight of God . . . Today we’re diving into the weight of our marriage vows. Too often the wedding vows are treated as an afterthought for many couples. Some don’t even remember what they said on their special day. I want couples to go from reciting rote rituals to pronouncing passionate promises.

We’re launching a new season and a new series on the podcast today that will focus on each aspect of the marriage vows. I’ll be bringing some special guests along for our journey. I know you’re going to find incredible value from what they have to share.

Traditional or Non-Traditional Wedding Vows

To lay a foundation, I’m including the traditional marriage vows below:

I, _______, take thee, _______, to be my wedded husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love, cherish, and OBEY, till death us do part, according to God’s holy law.

Now most 21st century women would rather choke on pudding than say the words “obey.” This is my story, and I’m sticking to it. Respect, yes. Obey? Nah.

Still, many couples opt to write non-traditional vows or (gasp!) leave the vows out altogether. I share my thoughts on this in the episode, so be sure to listen to the full episode (it’s a short one!) and get excited as we break down each part of the marriage vows in the episodes to come.

Links Mentioned in this Episode

History of Wedding Vows article

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