Compared to Who? Body Image for Christian Women

Heather Creekmore

Break Free from Negative Self Talk: Waiting for Weight Loss Series Ep 6

March 2, 2026 ● 7 min

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In this powerful episode of Compared to Who?, Heather Creekmore takes a deep dive into one of the most important (and personal) topics discussed in our community—negative self-talk. Are you your own harshest critic? Do you find it easy to be kind to others but unbearable when it comes to your own reflection? This episode is for you!

Heather openly explores the critical inner dialogue that many of us experience, especially on our journeys toward body image freedom. She addresses where negative self-talk comes from, why it's so hard to stop, and shares practical steps to start recognizing, writing down, and confronting those mean inner phrases that hold us back.

What You'll Learn:

How negative self-talk becomes a habit
The spiritual and emotional roots of self-criticism
Why simply "thinking positive" isn't enough
Practical tips for noticing, documenting, and challenging negative thoughts
How to find community and encouragement on the road to body kindness
How our deep-seated beliefs shape the way we treat ourselves

Key Takeaways:

You can't stop negative self-talk until you notice it—awareness is the first step.
Much of our negative inner dialogue stems from lies we’ve adopted as truth, often rooted in our childhood or from past hurtful comments.
Community and vulnerability are vital; you’re not alone, and healing often grows in connection with others.

Action Steps:

Start tuning into your self-talk. Notice and write down the harsh words you’re telling yourself.
Reflect: What’s stuck with you—and who put it there?
Visit the Compared to Who? community at www.waitingforweightloss.com to share your story and receive support from others on the same journey.
Challenge those hurtful statements with what God says about you.

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