I Wish You Could Hear This

I Wish You Could Hear This

Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn

The Blind Spots Hurting Your Relationships, with Debra Fileta: Episode 41

May 5, 2026   ●   43 min

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SUMMARY:

In this episode of I Wish You Could Hear This, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn sit down with licensed professional counselor and bestselling author Debra Fileta for an honest and insightful conversation about the relationship blind spots many of us don’t realize we have. Together, they explore how emotional patterns, past wounds, and unrecognized habits can quietly shape the way we connect with others.

Debra shares practical wisdom on how to grow in self-awareness, strengthen communication, and take ownership of the ways we impact the people we love. Whether you’re dating, married, leading others, or simply wanting healthier relationships, this episode offers hope-filled tools to help you break unhealthy cycles and build deeper connection.

If you’ve ever wondered why relationships can feel harder than they should—or how to become a healthier version of yourself—this conversation is for you.

LINKS AND RESOURCES:

Book: People Skills: Your Relationships Are Only as Strong as Your Skills

Website: Debra Fileta | Best Selling Author, Speaker, Psychotherapist, and Podcaster!

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