Think about the last disagreement you had with someone you love. How quickly did you assume you knew exactly what they meant?

Sometimes the words that hurt us aren’t what the other person intended. When we assume we know someone’s heart without asking, misunderstandings can grow into conflicts that never needed to happen. James 1:19 reminds us to be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.

Takeaways from this episode:
• Don’t assume you know what someone meant without asking.
• A simple question can prevent a misunderstanding from becoming a bigger conflict.
• Be quick to listen and slow to react.
• Understanding someone doesn’t always mean agreeing with them.
• Choosing to understand can be the first step toward healing a relationship.

Before you defend yourself or assume the worst, try asking, “What did you mean when you said that?” Sometimes understanding is where healing begins.

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