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  • How Do I Handle Being Judged By Others? How Do I Handle Being Judged By Others?
    Judgment is a part of living in a world with other people who are constantly evaluating everything about who you are and what you do. The key to handling the judgment of others well is learning to evaluate their comments in the light of God's ulti...helpformylife2011-05-27T10:00:34586 views00:02:28
  • How Do I Address My Judgmental Attitude Toward Others?How Do I Address My Judgmental Attitude Toward Others?
    People consistently make judgments about things, ideas, and other people all the time. The question is whether or not they are being judgmental in the process. Understanding the difference between a judgmental attitude that leads to pride and a he...helpformylife2011-05-27T10:00:34637 views00:01:50
  • What Does It Mean To Be Judgmental?What Does It Mean To Be Judgmental?
    The accusation of being judgmental is thrown around a lot in today's culture. Having an opposing opinion is not being judgmental. Imposing your opinion on others is. There is a clear difference between being judgmental and being discerning. Wise d...helpformylife2011-05-27T10:00:33672 views00:01:43
  • How Do I Handle Rejection In A Relationship? How Do I Handle Rejection In A Relationship?
    Rejection is never pain-free. If it is, then you've steeled yourself to never allow anyone to really get close to you. However, honestly facing the pain of rejection from others--especially those you care about--can lead you to see more clearly wh...helpformylife2011-05-27T10:00:33797 views00:02:19
  • How Do I Forgive Someone Who Has Hurt Me? How Do I Forgive Someone Who Has Hurt Me?
    Forgiveness is a necessity for any meaningful relationship to last for more than a day. The reason is because we are so poor at loving well. Forgiving those who hurt us for the pain that we can't forget is part of the ongoing gift of grace in rela...helpformylife2011-05-27T10:00:32573 views00:02:01
  • Where Do I Find Help To Learn How To Handle A Controlling Relationship?Where Do I Find Help To Learn How To Handle A Controlling Relationship?
    Controlling relationships are always disconcerting and chaotic. That's what controllers do--they uses chaos and confusion to maintain the power over others. It takes help to get away from the controller long enough to talk about the issues involve...helpformylife2011-05-27T10:00:32455 views00:01:56
  • What Makes A Relationship Controlling?What Makes A Relationship Controlling?
    Being in a relationship with a person who is controlling is not only frustrating but counterproductive. Sometimes those people are not able or willing to see or admit that their control is sabotaging the relationship. Understanding your impact on ...helpformylife2011-05-27T09:58:33487 views00:01:36
  • How Do I Set Healthy Boundaries In A Relationship?How Do I Set Healthy Boundaries In A Relationship?
    Boundaries in a relationship can be easily misunderstood and even misused. Understanding the difference between healthy boundaries and selfishly demanding one's rights can lead to mutual love and respect in any relationship.helpformylife2011-05-26T11:29:411,510 views00:02:01
  • Should My Spouse Be My Best Friend?Should My Spouse Be My Best Friend?
    Many couples affirm that their spouse is their best friend. While a part of that is wonderful, are we asking our spouses to bear too much? Even more importantly, is it loving to tell our spouse everything? What does a loving relationship really re...helpformylife2011-05-26T11:29:41667 views00:01:32
  • How Much Should I Reveal About My Personal Struggles To A Friend?How Much Should I Reveal About My Personal Struggles To A Friend?
    Meaningful relationships require vulnerability and authenticity in order to grow close. However, the question of how much vulnerability is needed is one open for debate. Authenticity must first begin in one's relationship with God before it can sp...helpformylife2011-05-26T11:29:40402 views00:02:01
  • Why Are Close Friendships Especially Difficult In The Church?Why Are Close Friendships Especially Difficult In The Church?
    People long for close, meaningful relationships. However, people are also afraid of getting close, being seen, and then being discarded. They don't feel safe at church because it historically hasn't been a grace-filled community where it's safe to...helpformylife2011-05-26T11:24:31495 views00:02:01
  • Why Do So Many People Struggle To Have Close Friends?Why Do So Many People Struggle To Have Close Friends?
    People long for deeply meaningful relationships. However, they also demand a kind of safety that insures that they never experience the pain of rejection or heartbreak. There in lies the rub because the safety we demand and closeness that we crave...helpformylife2011-05-26T11:19:33630 views00:01:36
  • What Does It Take To Build A Healthy Relationship?What Does It Take To Build A Healthy Relationship?
    While much literature has been written about relationships over the last 50 years, most will agree that good relationships don't just happen. They're built carefully and intentionally. That's why it's important to learn what it takes to build a he...helpformylife2011-05-26T11:19:31414 views00:02:47
  • How Does A Couple Rebuild Trust After Betrayal of Pornography?How Does A Couple Rebuild Trust After Betrayal of Pornography?
    Pornography is one of the most common forms of betrayal in marriages today. And while it may seem to be far less damaging than a full blown affair, the devastation left in it's wake should never be minimized. Wrestling through this form of betraya...helpformylife2011-05-26T11:19:311,144 views00:02:55
  • Why Is Unfaithfulness So Prevalent In Today's Culture?Why Is Unfaithfulness So Prevalent In Today's Culture?
    Why is adultery and infidelity hardly ever associated with the word "sin" today? Whether it's the stories we hear in small groups at church or what we see on the television or at the theater, sex for immediate pleasure has become the highest prior...helpformylife2011-05-26T11:14:35505 views00:03:42
  • What Is Underneath The Struggles With Sexual Intimacy That Couples Face?What Is Underneath The Struggles With Sexual Intimacy That Couples Face?
    All couples bring baggage into a relationship. The baggage from our own personal backgrounds as well as our commitment to selfish fulfillment with our spouse often results in difficulties in sexual intimacy in the marriage. Our baggage must be unp...helpformylife2011-05-26T11:09:40639 views00:02:44

Today's Devotional

A Prayer to Help You Comfort Others - Your Daily Prayer - April 25

Have you ever wondered if there is any purpose in your suffering? We certainly don’t go looking for suffering—it comes to us because life is a journey through difficulties and triumphs. Sufferings are a reminder of what Jesus Christ went through and it is a way for us to encourage others.

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