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Im a pretty good person. Nice, honest, loyal, thoughtful, kind, & tenacious. I love being lazy, just hanging around doing nothing, watching movies, reading, listening to music, or whatever. I cannot TOLERATE irresponsible deadbeat dad's! It's one thing to have setbacks but to totally ignore your responsibilities to your child is out right ludicrous! As the saying goes "don't talk about it be a about it" in handling your business as a father. Im a very good friend. Im always there for my friends, ready to listen, give advice and help, plus Im the best secret-keeper in the world. Im a highly competitive person. Im extremely driven by competition, and will put all my energy into winning. Second place isnt made for me. After I get to know people better and am more relaxed around them, I open up and am quite a funny and fun person. Im always open to listen to new ideas and views and try to understand them even if they are the opposite of mine. It doesnt mean Ill be convinced but I am willing to fully listen. Im a bit crazy in a fun sense. People usually think Im a very serious person, but thats only because they dont see the other crazy side of me. Ok, this is something that has been thrown at me a lot in my life in one form or another, although I dont agree. Some people think Im feelingless, some others think Im cold in my reactions, some think Im simply coldblooded. In reality, Im not, Im just someone who is good at hiding my feelings and who knows how to control her temper. Im a very understanding person. I always put myself in the other persons shoes and try to understand what theyre feeling, what theyre thinking and where they come from. I'm definitely a "doer" verses those who talk a lot with no actions to back what they say. I work very hard to support myself and my children and pride myself with providing my children with the fundamentals needed to be independent successful individuals. I love my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ; without him I am nothing but with Christ all things are possible! I'm a confident person who does not need validation from anyone. Accept me for who I AM or move on. I TRY to never be judgmental and to always give people the benefit of the doubt.